My daughter Ishwarya good looking down to earth confident person belonging to a well respected family. I believe in living in the present, but with an eye on the future studying in USA and believe in enjoying every moment of life.
My son is working as a Data Engineer in a product-based company. He has completed his BE in Mechanical engineering. He grew up in a Middle Class, Nuclear family.
I'm a very private person but this will be very long and personal as I want to outline myself in the best way for you to see, if I'm the guy you and your family would be interested in.
I know you're gonna need more than a photo, title in a company and annual income to choose a groom, so here you go:
------------------------ Personal Life ------------------------
I am a humble, empathetic individual and a great cook. I've started working and lived by myself since 2016 in Coimbatore, Bangalore and at present, Erode.
Despite this bio being too formal, I'm super casual around family and friends, pretty much a goofy golden retriever.
I have an intense craving for learning, growth and self development. Self satisfaction doesn't come from materialistic living for me but from growth, meaningful relations and interactions. I'm honest, self aware, emotionally intelligent, highly affectionate, spiritual yet not superstitious and a rational thinker. I used to practice chess actively from the age of 7-14, have 15+ divisional wins and 3 state wins.
I try to regulate my emotions in a healthy way and decompress in times of stress and pressure. That includes working out and traveling wherever my heart goes. I believe there has to be a healthy outlet to discharge negative emotions so it doesn't reveal itself around the people close to us. Recently started journaling and this practice has helped me deal with adversities effectively.
I'm fairly health conscious - I rarely eat out, have almost no sugar and been 16:8 intermittent fasting 6 days a week for the past 3+ years. I don't take health for granted and I try to include some sort of physical activity everyday, stay in shape and have occasional cheat days.
I believe in Karma, have strong moral values and a sense of purpose that I would never compromise. I believe that who I am as a person, will be the reflection of my family. I only take away what's productive in the modern world. I mostly hold traditional values and responsibilities as a man with a touch of selective & progressive modern values.
My favorite reads were from Dostoyevsky, Nietzsche, Carl Jung and Jordan Peterson. I'm very philosophical and I hold Bhagavat Gita close to my heart. Philosophy has given me immense clarity and guided me with a sense of purpose. Had my fair share of binge watching TV shows back in the days. Big fan of Nolan, Kubrick, Maniratnam and GVM. I tune into podcasts a lot more now.
I'm someone who cherishes the earthy smell when it rains, warmth of the ground under my feet, count my blessings and be grateful everyday. I love dogs and planning to get my first one very soon.
Raja, Rahman, Yuvan and Pradeep make up most of my Spotify. My favorite lyricists are Na. Muthukumar and Vairamuthu. I aspire to learn a musical instrument and I love to sing.
With all of this being said, I'm NOWHERE close to being perfect or reached my fullest potential physically, mentally and spiritually.
I consider self improvement a journey and happiness as its byproduct but never the destination. I also consider honesty, trust, mutual respect and communication the key to a beautiful relationship and am looking for a loving partner to share my life with and stick together through good times and adversity.
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Appa (B.Sc, B.Ed) retired as assistant manager in Indian Overseas Bank and is now a pensioner.
Amma (M.A, B.Ed) has 5 years of service left as a teacher.
Anna (35 y/o - B.E - ECE) is a senior associate in State Bank of India. He's happily married. I look up to my anna and often resort to him in times of adversity to navigate the world.
Sister in-law (30 y/o - B.E - ECE) is an associate in Central Bank of India, Kovilpatti. She's my cousin and my best friend since I was 4 years old.
Affection and love has always been in abundance in the family. I was brought up by my most wonderful amma and paati with unconditional love and I believe women hold the super power to protect one's spirit. Amma has 4 siblings and they're all loving, very close and supportive. They're all highly charitable and selfless.
------------------------ Professional Life ------------------------
I'm employed as internal auditor (GST & Income Tax) for 3 companies and I also own a business in the textile industry (textile yarn manufacturing & sales).
Experience(s)
1. 3 years of freelancing (IT Web Dev & Graphic Design)
2. 1.5 years of business automation services (IT - Web Dev & UI/UX)
3. 3 years and counting - GST + IT auditing
I have started working in IT from my 2nd year of college. I was self employed throughout my time in IT. I started learning and practicing accounting, GST and Income Tax auditing for my maternal uncle's company from Nov 2020, worked 2 jobs before quitting IT as I've made enough capital for my own business in the textile industry. I had enough time to analyse the industry to see if its the right one for long term and made the call by Oct 2023 to be registered as a business.
I'm gonna keep my income approximate on the profile until mutual interest. I'm salaried (4.8 LPA) as well as have an interest income (2.25 LPA) and been planning out my investments from FD to stocks as well.
I'm working together with my uncle for both his company and mine. He has been in the textile industry for 25 years and is the M.D of a textile spinning mills in Sathyamangalam. His company is very well known and reputable among Tiruppur area.
I'm well on my way to expand & explore more ventures in the future. Now that I've laid out the foundation for a sustainable business on top of being employed, I feel confident about starting a new chapter in life.
I know that there's a stigma about businesses being unstable and everyone has their doubts about it. If everything else interests you and would like to know more about my profession, we can talk over the phone.
------------------------ Partner Preferences -----------------------
1. A woman that prioritizes health, carries herself with elegance.
2. Someone who's honest, humble, self aware, affectionate and is motivated to take care of herself.
3. Someone who's capable of showing vulnerability, express her feelings and is willing to work towards solving problems that will inevitably show itself.
------------------------ My no compromises ------------------------
Please skip me as I would be incompatible with you,
1. If you lack discipline and responsibility,
2. If you take health for granted,
3. If you follow a hedonistic lifestyle,
4. If you're unwilling to have open and direct conversations,
5. If you're not ready for marital life and not prepared mentally for interdependence.
------------------------ PS / Pinkurippu ------------------------
To my future pondatti,
I intend to give my 100% to be your best friend, guardian and a loving husband. You can expect flowers, date nights, lots of love, delicious dishes, travel and time together from me no matter how busy work gets.
To my future mamanar sir,
We'll get along really well as good friends, do morning walks, have that morning tea and soodana medhu vadai, talk politics, world affairs, etc.
And to my future mamiyar madam,
We'll be having a good time cooking together, sharing our secret recipes with each other to keep the foodies in the family happy.
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- I won't be sitting in your inbox for long if you've sent me an interest and haven't gotten in touch with me.
My name is Shriram and I works in NTPL Power Plant as an Contract Engineer .I belong to a Middle Class, Joint Family with Traditional Values. I have completed my BE.
