Looking for a groom from Pillai Community . Have created this profile for my niece . She has completed her B.com.LLB (Hons) in Apr-2019 from School of excellence in Law, Dr.Ambedkar Law university Chennai,and is currently practicing advocate in Madras High Court in taxation area ,under a reputed senior advocate. We are a middle class, nuclear family with moderate values and all of us are graduate/post graduate working in reputed companies. our ancestral origin is from Tuticorin however we are settled in chennai belong to Pillai , sub caste :Nangudi vellalar (Also called as Sivagalai Pillai -Narain kizhai ) and prefer groom from Pillai Community
My name is Muthukarthika and I am working as a Clerk in the Private sector. I have completed my B.Sc..I am studing MBA IN Corresponding my mother is running in own tailoring business shop I grew up in a Middle Class, Nuclear family.
My daughter Ishwarya good looking down to earth confident person belonging to a well respected family. I believe in living in the present, but with an eye on the future studying in USA and believe in enjoying every moment of life.
Our son name is Sairamanujam M and he works in the Private Sector as a Professor / Lecturer. I belong to a Upper Middle Class, Nuclear Family. he has completed my M.A. media arts from loyola college B Sc Viscom Madras University First Rank Drawing Designing Acting Singing directing editing shows etc etc ........Dream to be Achiver Achieved.......
My name is A.Narayanan and I am working as a Dermatologist in JIPMER after completing my MD in AIIMS, Delhi. I have been raised up in a Upper Middle Class, nuclear Family.I belong to kankeyan kilai and
am looking for a well cultured & good looking girl.
We are living in Chennai. Father is working in Private company for past 35 years, Mother is a homemaker, Sister got married and has a daughter. We want a bride from same commmunity (Other than Thennakilai). We are a middle class family. Our ancestral origin is from Tuticorin, however we are settled in Chennai.
I'm a very private person but this will be very long and personal as I want to outline myself in the best way for you to see, if I'm the guy you and your family would be interested in. I don't believe in horoscope but you may ask for it on mutual interest. Raasi - Kumbam & Star - Sadhayam.
I know you're gonna need more than a photo, title in a company and annual income to choose a groom, so here you go:
------------------------ Personal Life ------------------------
I am a humble, empathetic individual and a great cook. I've started working and lived by myself since 2016 in Coimbatore, Bangalore and at present, Gobichettipalayam, Erode.
Despite this bio being too formal, I'm super casual around family and friends, pretty much a goofy golden retriever.
I have an intense craving for learning, growth and self development. Self satisfaction doesn't come from materialistic living for me but from growth and relations. I'm honest, self aware, emotionally intelligent, highly affectionate, spiritual yet not superstitious and a rational thinker. I used to practice chess actively from the age of 7-14, have 15+ divisional wins and 3 state wins.
I try to regulate my emotions in a healthy way and decompress in times of stress and pressure. That includes working out and traveling wherever my heart goes. I believe there has to be a healthy outlet to discharge negative emotions so it doesn't reveal itself around the people close to us.
Here's one of my favorite quotes: "When times are good, be grateful and in times of adversity, be graceful."
I'm fairly health conscious - I rarely eat out, have little to no sugar and been 16:8 intermittent fasting 6 days a week . I don't take health for granted and I try to maintain at least 30 active minutes everyday, stay in shape and have occasional cheat days.
I believe in Karma, have strong moral values and a sense of purpose that I would never compromise. I believe that who I am as a person, will be the reflection of my family. I only take away what's productive in the modern world. I mostly hold traditional values and responsibilities as a man with a touch of selective & progressive modern values.
My favorite reads were from Dostoyevsky, Nietzsche, Carl Jung and Jordan Peterson. I'm very philosophical and I hold Bhagavat Gita close to my heart. Philosophy has given me immense clarity and guided me with a sense of purpose. Had my fair share of binge watching TV shows back in the days. Big fan of Nolan, Kubrick, Maniratnam and GVM. I tune into podcasts a lot more now.
I'm someone who cherishes the earthy smell when it rains, warmth of the ground under my feet, count my blessings and be grateful everyday. I love dogs and about to get my first one very soon.
Raja, Rahman, Yuvan and Pradeep make up most of my Spotify. My favorite lyricists are Na. Muthukumar and Vairamuthu. I aspire to learn a musical instrument and I love to sing.
With all of this being said, I'm NOWHERE close to being perfect or reached my fullest potential physically, mentally and spiritually.
I consider perfection a journey and not a destination. I consider honesty, trust, mutual respect and communication the key to a beautiful relationship and am looking for a loving partner to share my life with and stick together through good times and adversity.
------------------------ Family ------------------------
Appa (B.Sc, B.Ed) retired as assistant manager in Indian Overseas Bank and is now a pensioner.
Amma (M.A, B.Ed) has 5 years of service left as a teacher.
Anna (35 y/o - B.E - ECE) is a senior associate in State Bank of India. He's happily married. I look up to my anna and often resort to him in times of adversity to navigate the world.
Sister in-law (30 y/o - B.E - ECE) is an associate in Central Bank of India, Kovilpatti. She's my cousin and my best friend since I was 4 years old.
Affection and love has always been in abundance in the family. I was brought up by my most wonderful amma and paati with unconditional love and I believe women hold the super power to protect one's spirit. Amma has 6 siblings and they're all loving, very close and supportive. They're all highly charitable and selfless.
My short term goal is to get my brother / sister in-law involved in the business as well and move my family closer to me. Also have plans to move to Tiruppur as business is primarily conducted there. Would also be great to find a partner that's interested in entrepreneurship.
------------------------ Professional Life ------------------------
1. 3 years of freelancing (IT Web Dev & Graphic Design)
2. 1.5 years of business automation services (IT - Web Dev & UI/UX)
3. 3 years and counting - GST + IT auditing
I have started working in IT from my 2nd year of college. I was self employed throughout my IT career. I started learning and practicing accounting, GST and Income Tax auditing for my maternal uncle's company from Nov 2020 and worked 2 jobs before quitting IT as I've made enough capital for my own business in the textile industry.
I now own a sole proprietorship business (textile yarn manufacturing & sales) & have 2 other sources of income.
I'm gonna keep my business income approximate on the profile private until mutual interest. I'm also salaried for my uncle's company (4.8 LPA) and have an interest income as well (2.25 LPA).
I'm working together with my uncle for both his company and mine. He has been in the textile industry for 25 years and is the M.D of a textile spinning mills in Sathyamangalam. His company is very well known and reputable among Tiruppur area.
I'm well on my way to expand & explore more ventures in the future. Now that I've laid out the foundation for a sustainable business, I feel confident about starting a new chapter in life.
I know that there's a stigma about businesses being unstable and everyone has their doubts about it. If everything else interests you and would like to know more about my profession, we can talk over the phone.
------------------------ Partner Preferences -----------------------
1. A woman that prioritizes health, carries herself with elegance.
2. Someone who's honest, humble, self aware and is motivated to take care of herself.
3. Someone who's capable of showing vulnerability, express her feelings and is willing to work towards solving problems that will inevitably show itself.
4. Its a bonus if you've been ambitious about entrepreneurship.
5. Would be great if you're willing to work together with me for a shared professional life. Two minds are always better than one right.
------------------------ My no compromises ------------------------
Please skip me,
1. If you lack discipline and responsibility,
2. If you take health for granted,
3. If you're lazy and unambitious,
4. If you're not ready for marital life and not prepared mentally for interdependence,
5. If you haven't been productive for a long period of time since graduation.
------------------------ PS / Pinkurippu ------------------------
To my future pondatti,
I intend to give my 100% to be your best friend, guardian and a loving husband. You can expect flowers, date nights, lots of love, delicious dishes, travel and time together from me no matter how busy work gets.
To my future mamanar sir,
We'll get along really well as good friends, do morning walks, have that morning tea and soodana medhu vadai, talk politics, world affairs, etc.
And to my future mamiyar madam,
We'll be having a good time cooking together, sharing our secret recipes with each other to keep the foodies in the family happy.
- I won't be sitting in your inbox for long if you've sent me an interest and haven't gotten in touch with me.